This
I Believe Essay
By
Jose Guzman
Spouses
screaming at each other over an argument. Kids crying because of the noise that
their parents are making. That’s what lead me to believe in this. What I
believe in is that one is better than two rather than the other way around.
It
is important to realize that people are different and work differently. Some
people do better if they work alone while others like being in groups and
working together. Well, I am not one of those people. I like to work by myself
because I don’t like relying on other people to do their part. I would rather
have the responsibility.
I
remember when I was in fifth grade. I was assigned a social studies project. I
had to research a topic and make a project basically. My teachers said that
everyone required to have at least one partner. I was so sad. When I was
assigned my partner I thought that it wouldn’t be bad, that we would get
through this. Of course I was wrong! He was so irresponsible. He did ten
percent of the work while I did the rest. At the time I was really mad. If I
could I would have freaked out and do stuff that I would never think of. This
is one of the things that got me thinking that when our teachers, parents and
mentors say two is better than one that they are lying.
Also
another time was when I went with my dad to court to change my last name to
Guzman. I entered to be received with screams of parents, fighting about things
that are happening in their lives. I saw kids crying and saying “ mommy don’t
scream” and “ daddy”. I asked my dad why are they fighting? He responded “
because they can’t work together son. They want to be by themselves”. At that
moment in my life, I examined my past. I realized that my dad didn’t have
anyone to fight with but himself. No partner to bicker with. My dad acted as my
dad and my mom, and he seemed happy with it. He still loved me as much as any
other parent out there.
Now
that I look back on those moments I realize what happy lives people live by
themselves. I mean, I turned out pretty fine without a mother. I always say
that it doesn’t matter if you are alone or with someone as long as you are
happy. It just so happens that being alone makes me happy. I know that there
are people out there that agree with my belief. But this I believe.